funeral for my friend John

I think that people need help planning funerals, if you are going to have a funeral at least make it a celebration and make it personal. I don't want a funeral, I want all my friends (hopefully more than 4) to plan to go for a meal and make it a banquet, eat well and visit. Hope you can all say pleasant things about me and celebrate my life. Just don't come if you don't have anything good to say.